Guide to becoming a female escort.

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Being a successful escort.

So you think you're cut out to be an escort?

Happy to work in the "Adult Escort Industry"?

At this point if you think that escorting is just about meeting a gentleman, dining
with him before a night on the town, then into a taxi to take you home, go no further.

Now if you understand that an escort earns her real money, by providing a value for money personal service then you are half way to being a successful escort.

Lets all be sure what personal service means.

Even in today's more cosmopolitan society many think that "escort" is just another name for "whore" or "hooker" or "prostitute". Not at all an escort is more what one used to refer as a "courtesan".
But do not forget the one thing common to all is that your gentlemen clients are all looking for that special personal service, what many escorts today refer to as "a girlfriend experience"

Well I guess if all guys had partners / girlfriends who were always glamorously turned out, always eager to ensure their man was never frustrated and never said no to a rough and tumble in the hay, I guess escorts would only ever have those clients looking for a change to normal.

A successful escort must offer that value for money personal service, which may well be based around female company and companionship, but must also involve some extra special service to ensure her client is free of those ever frustrating urges.

Personal service most often includes sex.
Be not surprised escorts often accept cash for sex.
An "adult escort" offers "Sex 4 Sale"

Why an escort?

Well for many the answer is cash.
Yes lots of money.

Certainly as an escort being paid by the hour at rates very few other professionals can ask it is certainly an attractive proposition. Now even if the thoughts of lots of easy money are behind your wanting to be an escort, take it from one that knows: The money is not always easy, and it takes a lot more than the desire for money to ever produce a successful escort.

To work as and when I want.
Lots of me time.

Yes certainly as an independent escort you can certainly work as and when you want, or can you?
Even with the extra cash earned, life's commitments are still there; family friends and the other boring daily chores. Also do remember that working for a boss means he calls the shots, being self employed your clients are the boss, they call the shots, lots of bosses with demands on your time, so make sure you are a good manager of time, other wise you'll be a very tired escort.

So I've not put you off, and you really do want to become an escort.

Fringe benefits to expect -

Lots of money - Make sure that you remember the value of it.

Free time as and when you want it - But do be sure some of your time is spent working.

Disadvantages to expect -

Not all your friends and family will approve of you new career - Be prepared to live a double life.

Falling in Love with a client - However much a client falls for you, remember he is falling for your escort persona not necessarily the real you. You falling for a client!! a guy who is paying you to entertain him, so become his wife you'll still have to entertain him but he stops paying.

The escort service.

Now for the most important difference between being a whore for cash and entertaining as an escort.

To gain respect and success as an escort you must quickly learn to genuinely care about your clients.

If you think of them as a cash dispenser, the machine will quickly run out of money.

Respect and be attentive, chat but don't question, listen and learn.

Respect and have respect shown to you, know your own rules and stick to them do not be coerced into doing anything you are not completely comfortable with. Spend that extra effort to get to know each others likes and dislikes and remember things for next time. Yes there has to be a next time if you want to succeed.

Do chat away, make friends, but do give the guy a chance if he wants say something. Be sure chat is relaxed, try not to ask personal questions remember that your oil rich billionaire may not want you to know that the article in today's newspaper about the break with his wife is because of you.

Listen and always be attentive to what the client does say, be sympathetic when required, boost his ego when prompted remember he is your cash machine but never let him know it.

So we are now well on our way to understanding what that special value for money personal service we offer really is. Its a personal service you offer that is far more than paid sex, it makes the client feel wanted and special, it makes him feel he is the only client and your time together is very special to you both

These guys called clients are not necessarily looking for pure beauty in looks they are often looking for beauty within. Spending time with "miss world" may be their dream but if you can make him feel like "Mr World" you're well on your way to being "Miss Right" for him.

Not mentioned so far as it really ought to be taken for granted, you must always appear to him at your best, scrupulously clean and dressed to impress whilst in turn ensure he offers you the same courtesy.

Whilst we have earlier well understood this is a financial transaction, do try to get that bit out of the way as soon as and in a discreet manner so as not to have it impact on the liaison itself.

Now we know what makes a good escort.
Next the question Independent Escort or Agency Escort?

The basic difference between being an independent and working through an agent is all in the management of the service you have to sell "That value for money special personal service".

As an independent you are not only the product on sale, but the sales manager, receptionist come telephonist, marketing manager putting together the package, advertising manager promoting the package plus detective vetting prospective clients before confirming a booking along with being the happy go luck escort. Of course in your spare time don't forget your regular trips to the hair salon, nail parlour and beauty therapist setting aside at least six hours a week retail therapy to ensure your wardrobe is always stocked with new glamorous underwear,  shoes and outfits for all occasions.

As an agency escort I'm afraid you will still need some of your spare time for your hair, nails and beauty but hopefully after a successful interview with the agency, all you'll need to be is an escort.
You will however have to pay the agency a commission for being your sales, promotion and booking agent.

The agency payments differ greatly from one agency to another, some include  photo shot that you may have to pay for, some agencies insist that they supply your transport to and from each booking some insist you spend your on duty / shift time between bookings at their premises.

As I'm not qualified to determine what makes a good agency and what constitutes a rip off set up, well I am but at the end of the day, you have set your sights on being an escort, going out into the big bad world and trusting your own judgement as to what is safe and what might put your life at risk. This interview would be your first challenge. Ask questions, be sure you leave knowing just what the agency would expect and ask yourself is this an outfit I'd trust t vet potential clients before setting up my dates. Is what they are offering worth the amount of commission they would charge.

At this point you might bear in mind that without escorts, an agency has no business, who needs who most. Even if offered the job go away and think about things before committing yourself and ideally try a couple of different agencies in your area weighing one up against the other before deciding, always being on the look out to try to chat to any other ladies working for the agencies.

Over the next couple of weeks 2 more in depth articles will be finished.

The first what to look for in a good agency and what should have you running for the door quick smart.

And an article actually being put together with EscortsPlus about setting up as an independent escort.

This article is the copyright of EscortsPlus penned by "Miss Plus" and edited by KimPlus.

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