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Punters Guide to Punting - A Few Punting Anecdotes for our punting guide.
This final section of the guide deals with the more anecdotal
material of general interest to new and existing punters. The
information here has been largely gathered from the PboroPlus
forum-x, is anonymous and does not name or identify any service
provider or punter.
In the first section of the guide, there has been a studious
effort to avoid content that, for the purposes of any new punter
may perhaps be a little too subjective, for example the issues of
why someone may choose to punt, details of actual first
experiences and so on. However, there has been considerable
feedback on the content of this guide and a clear demand to report
and address punter’s, experiences, attitudes and views and also to
provide some information regarding punters and providers in
general.
Hopefully this section will address the balance and give a broader
view of the personal services scene.
Age and Marital Status
During 2004, there were two interesting polls of PboroPlus site
members; these albeit self-selecting surveys do serve to address
two commonly asked questions regarding those who choose to punt.
The first survey addressed the issue of age amongst punters and
the results were as follows:
Age 16-24 - 8%
Age 25-30 - 4%
Age 31-35 - 14%
Age 36-40 - 10%
Age 41-45 - 20%
Age 46-50 - 14%
Age 51-60 - 23%
61+ - 4%
This was from a poll of 69 PboroPlus board members, but it is
worthwhile noting that with regard to the results, there is a
10-year increment on the 51-60 age group, hence a larger result.
In addition there was a further poll regarding marital status,
again this is from a survey of 41 members on the PboroPlus board
in 2004:
Single (always have been) - 19%
Married - 56%
Living with Partner (in sin!) - 12%
Divorced - 7%
Separated - 2%
Widower - 2%
Hopefully any reader that has got this far through the guide, will
be intelligent enough to draw their own conclusions with regard to
the results of these two surveys, rather than have them spelt out
for you. Clearly, the issue of punting and the ages at which
personal services are sought are perhaps not as many people expect
"the sole preserve of middle aged men"! However, the information
gathered regarding marital status follows more a more "expected"
pattern, being mostly married men. It is worthwhile noting
however, that there is a significant number of single males too.
As mentioned, it is not really necessary to dwell too long on the
implications of these particular poll results, but hopefully they
will be of interest.
Are you sitting comfortably?
The widespread use of internet has had had an enormous impact on
the Personal Services industry, and it would not be unreasonable
to conclude that it’s effect on allowing punters to make informed
decisions, share opinions and general information regarding
personal services and most importantly information about the
providers themselves – all with the effective anonymity that the
internet provides. It is true too that the internet has allowed
providers themselves to advertise at a reasonable cost, provide
more information to prospective clients than would usually be
affordable through traditional advertising routes such a
classified advertisements in local newspapers. However, we are
looking to concentrate here on the benefits to the punters. In
previous times punting seems to have been something of a "hit and
miss" affair, and of course though there remains a huge number of
"poor experiences", the fact remains that if a prospective punter
does their research carefully, checks reviews on ladies, feedback
on message boards and so on. At least you can arrange a meeting
with a lady, with a reasonable expectation that neither your time
nor your money will be wasted.
The following two Punters experiences compare and contrast quite
neatly the experiences before and after the "internet revolution":
"Without the present benefit of internet and sites like this my
first punt was a real shot in the dark. After much perusal of
contact magazines I settled on a promising, fairly local, lady and
made the nervy phone call. I was told to go to a certain phone box
and call from there - no mobiles in those days! About 2 hours
later I called again and was asked "long or short time". As I was
a complete virgin as well as punting virgin, I played it safe and
opted for a short time. After receiving directions I walked round
the corner to a terraced row of cottages and nervously knocked on
the door indicated.
It opened and a head peered round it beckoning me in. Inside the
lady was tanned and wearing nothing except a thong. She looked
nothing like the picture in the magazine! She said "Give me the
money and put your clothes on the chair."
The next few minutes were a complete disaster! She took off the
thong and joined me on the bed. Any attempt to touch her was
brushed aside. "You said short time". Rubber was pushed onto a
limp member and she mounted me and tried to force me into her.
Nothing happened! After two minutes I admitted failure, dressed
and fled."
The next day I had a bruised member, which, in my ignorance, I
suspected, was some sort of infection! After that my punting
career could only improve, although it was some time before I
tried again!"
That experience dated back a few years, in contrast perhaps things
seem to have changed somewhat in recent times, from this account:
"I must admit to never having the slightest interest in meeting a
working girl prior to locating a site dedicated to punting in the
local area called Camscene. This site somehow piqued my interest,
it now no longer exists of course and has been replaced by
PboroPlus but was found purely by chance after awfully long
periods of idle wandering around the internet looking for all
manner of things that caught my interest. Certainly the site
itself intrigued the more devilish side of me.
Personally, at the age of thirty, being reasonably good-looking,
tall and slim - meeting and dating girls was never an issue nor a
massive struggle, but the prospect of meeting a working girl
seemed to really be quite exciting, something new and appealed to
the "try anything once" side of my nature. So, no tale of an
unhappy sexless marriage here I’m afraid! Also it may be of
interest to note, that despite being sexually active from about
the age of 19, I have never had an enormous sex drive, with an
accompanying all consuming urge to fulfil same – certainly
punting for me was and still is – simple excitement and pure
unadulterated devilment!
So now the prospect of the whole experience had my full attention,
I think the major obstacle then became - fear of the unknown –
firstly, "what to expect" and secondly locating a provider who I
would find attractive and offer a reliable service. Both these
issues were dealt with nicely via the Internet - with a rather
long-winded but nonetheless informative "guide to punting" on the
original Camscene site and by the reviews and information also on
the site.
Basically, I narrowed down my choices and preferences; firstly I
did want to Punt in Cambridge, it was a location I knew well and
in which I felt both safe and confident (yep, even in the
"rougher" parts!). I also felt strongly that the lady should be at
or around my own age, (no Oedipus complex here!), and also slim –
basically similar to any girl that I would otherwise find
attractive in any other circumstances. In addition, having read a
fair few reviews and other information on the site, it did seem
clear that OWO would be preferential. I thought to myself that
bearing in mind the inevitable
first-time-with-a-working-girl-nerves, best to keep things simple
– and simply expect a bit of massage (however ham-fisted), a bit
of a kiss and cuddle and oral to finish. I also concluded that in
call would be best, despite having my own place - coupling my
nervousness with a new environment I decided that any lady might
not be feel so comfortable as simply dealing with a nervous chap
on her own turf! If she felt at ease then I had a fighting chance
of feeling comfortable too! Anyway, and honestly without wanting
to brag - it would not be the first time I had toddled off to some
girl’s place having only just met her – so an "alien" environment
for me (even given the slightly different nature of the
"transaction") – wasn’t so much of a concern. Lastly, I thought it
best to try and locate a lady that I could book at short notice,
for a "same day" appointment, so I could be sure I definitely had
the "urge" and hopefully this prevent a prolonged period of
"pre-match" nerves too!
So I had done the research, worked out what roughly what and who I
was looking for, oddly enough I did settle on a lady with mixed
reviews, no photo – but with good descriptions in her reviews both
on Camscene and Punternet. Having finally plucked up the courage
to call, I explained that this would be my first experience with a
working girl and agreed an appointment for later that day, so off
I went to have a bath and make myself look beautiful (!). I had
been told to drive to a set location near to where she was based
and call again just before the appointment time for final
directions to her nearby flat. All of this worked pretty well, and
certainly the lady was as described in the reviews I had read,
after an initial chat and exchange of money - we seemed to get on
OK, I found her reasonably attractive and so we retired to her
bedroom!
Certainly, it was not the most salubrious flat in the nicest area
of Cambridge – but I have hung around worse places in my murky
past (!) so I felt pretty comfortable albeit as nervous as hell!
As expected, a basic, not particularly expert massage was received
(the chatting during this did help calm my nerves down), a bit of
a kiss and a cuddle, then the required oral on me. As this was my
first time with a working girl, I pretty much lay back, relaxed
and let the lady "do her thing". In retrospect the oral wasn’t top
drawer, but as I have now come to realise from all my experiences
as a punter for me, and hopefully not for me only (and certainly
nowadays I do try and put in more of an effort to make the lady
hopefully enjoy the experience a bit too! – the sex is only half
of the punting equation. The key to punting for me is, what only
can be described as "the buzz" – that accompanying the whole
experiences, the feeling that you are doing something "a bit
naughty", the "unknown element" – the anticipation of meeting a
lady, generally sight unseen (despite studiously checking for
reviews and feedback etc), not knowing really what or who to
expect. For me that’s just as big a part of the experience as the
sexual element of encounter itself – as I said before – "pure
devilment"
Hopefully those two experiences will be of interest, the following
are edited accounts of first experiences posted on the message
board, and also other reports sent in directly by PboroPlus
members:
"My first punt was with a 34 year old lady. Being unaware of
Cambscene or Punternet etc (and not being connected to the
internet at the time), I got her mobile telephone number from free
weekly newspaper listings after scrutinising the adverts closely,
so it was a bit hit and miss. I was lucky, to my amazement she
lived in a new large modern four-bedroom house; this I found very
re-assuring as, in my ignorance, I expected a 'run down' place
etc. I was offered 1 hour naturist massage with HR for £40 (2001)
and she told me she didn’t 'do sex'. I saw her and her alone at 4
to 6 weekly intervals for 18 months. To cut a long story short £40
progressed to £60, this allowed me to massage her and then after
about 12 months to full sex for £120. Sessions became about 75
minutes. I got on very well with her but she left the area and I
then had to look elsewhere."
"I'm 34 and started punting - by accident - when I was 28. I was
single at the time and for my birthday fancied some pampering, so
booked myself for what I thought was a massage. I had no idea that
any 'extras' were on offer! Anyway, it wasn't long into the
massage that things started to stir down below, and by the time
the lady uttered the immortal words (as I lay with stonking
hard-on!) "Would you like me to massage that bit too?" I was ready
to explode.
I went back several times, and because nothing else was on offer,
and I'd originally not been looking for anything extra, I
convinced myself it was OK. I carried the same mindset when I
eventually started punting properly (firstly from the Sunday Sport
- disaster! - then through the Punternet website), and have always
managed to separate it from the rest of my life.
I do it out of devilment, the thrill of driving there, maybe
meeting someone new. Sometimes the sex has been awesome, sometimes
ordinary, always an experience. In the last six years I've had a
few relationships; one gave me the best sex I've ever had, but I
still punted occasionally for the illicit thrill. I am now in a
serious relationship and have no problem differentiating punting
from the real world! I don't think there's a problem going out and
building normal relationships as long as you can keep punting in
perspective."
"Let me tell you about my first attempted punt. I was 18 and still
a reluctant virgin. I went down to London on the train one Friday
evening. I walked around Soho for hours full of nervousness.
Eventually I went up a staircase near one of those "French Model"
signs. The maid smiled and welcomed me in – she must have been at
least 70! She ushered me into the "operations room". The working
girl was about 40, long ginger hair, very care-worn, no front
teeth. Maybe a dissatisfied client, or perhaps one blow-job too
many! She looked at me in surprise, smiled and said, "Fwee
fucka
wivva rabber". I turned round, shot down the stairs and ran like
hell all the way to King's Cross.
I managed to keep my virginity for another 2 years, and then lost
it to my future wife. It was another 30 years before I tried
punting again, surprised how much the prices have gone up. I'm
still happily married, just making up for what I missed earlier."
So there you have it. Obviously PboroPlus welcomes any further
contributions from site members to be added to this section of the
guide.
Punting and the art of marital maintenance.
As is stated at the start of the guide, the overriding view in
writing this guide are the reasons that you may choose or decline
to start visiting working girls are your own. However, it is clear
from the feedback received that a number of readers feel that some
element needs to be added for the benefit of those punters that
are married or in long-term relationships.
Clearly the "issues" concerning this are an honest and genuine
concern to some punters, mixing punting with relationships is a
complex issue, it opens up a further flurry of moral questions and
so on. In fairness to those that may disagree with the authors
view, that this guide is, as previously stated, is not intended as
some huge, discursive sociological essay on the morals or the
innate right’s and wrongs on visiting working girls we can perhaps
indulge those views to some extent.
After all, I might think that you’re all big enough and ugly
enough to make your own decisions in life, but the following
comments received on the message board may be of interest, what
you see here are edited comments from some of the site members
concerning the question "Is Punting is less heinous than having an
affair?"
"I would imagine we would all agree with that, but then we've all
been students of the subject if not masters. The point is more
what our respective wives would think if they caught us punting.
I'm pretty sure mine would not differentiate! Even if I am able to
throw most of my needs back at her deficiencies in this regard.
But another factor is possibly that some may punt at least partly
just because they can easily get away with it thanks to modern
lifestyles, the internet, unregistered phones & email addresses
etc..... "
"We're getting into some serious disclosure here. Why do we do it,
in spite of the risks? I do it because I love women and have found
out rather late in life that my performance and enjoyment depend
at least as much on the woman as on my own competence, experience
or age.
It gets better all the time. I've just been reading in The Times
that men over 50 can normally manage it twice a week at best.
Don't you believe it! With the right woman it can be 12 times in 3
days, even for an old sod like me! Punting is a taste of heaven
before you go over the other side."
"I think from the female perspective punting could be worse. I
think some ladies could understand an affair but to disappear (as
they may see it) just for sex to a number of different ladies may
be considered more of an insult."
"I think extramarital sex is usually a symptom rather than the
underlying cause of marital breakdown. Quite often the trigger
though! If you have issues with each other, it's hardly likely you
are going to have good sex, and are therefore more likely to go
looking for it. You would think that wives would see punting as
just looking for better or different sex, whereas an affair is by
definition an alternate relationship, & no guarantee of good sex!
I wonder where "adult dating" sites fit, when you're not actually
paying for sex (directly)? Oddly enough I rejoined one recently
for amusement, not that it has done me any good to date. The sex
ratio appears to be about 20 to 1 currently, 600000 men looking
for women, & 28000 women looking for men in UK"
"I can see that some wives could actually find it easier to
understand an affair with one women rather than accept that the
husband basically pays for sexual activity with a variety of
ladies."
"I started punting as a 55th birthday present to me. I am happy
with all other aspects of my second marriage but wanted some of my
fantasies to come true before I was too old to enjoy them. I have
been married for 35 years of my life, went straight from marriage
number one, through divorce to marriage number 2 and felt there
was more to the sexual arena than occasional sex in the missionary
position. Keeping punting in a 'secret' compartment of my life
adds to the thrill of meeting working girls, keeps me satisfied
sexually and happily married"
From the authors perspective, amongst what is hopefully a pretty
wide circle of friends (aged around 20-40) there are only two
couples, amongst a group of about twenty couples that have got
married and have stayed together; thus making the divorce rate in
my particular peer group well above the national average I
suspect!
Funnily enough, in cases where there have been "affairs", it
surprises that quite often these seem to form only one part of the
issues directly surrounding the break-up – not the direct,
immediate cause, personally I’m surprised how often the "wronged
partner", spends an awful lot of time and effort trying to
rationalise their partners extra marital "activities". - Still,
I’ve never been married, had children etc - so what do I know?
It seems that it is not a black and white issue in my experience,
i.e.: "he/she has had an affair therefore we have split up"
obviously it does an awful lot of damage, but rarely seems to be
the final nail in the "marital coffin".
So, doubtless you would think there would be little
differentiation in the eyes of the "wronged" party, should anyone
be caught "punting" by their partners, my suggestion is that the
key would be that affairs are "easier" to come to terms with.
Primarily as affairs are such a relatively common thing (in the
media, TV, amongst people’s own peer groups etc) – people do feel
they can talk it through with friends, family etc even and the
partners themselves. However, "punting" is still strictly speaking
a taboo subject in society at large and thus may be far, far more
difficult for someone "understand" or "come to terms with".
Anyway, so here we are at the end of the punting guide. Hopefully any
reader will have found it interesting, informative and hopefully a
little bit entertaining too! Any comments, criticisms and
suggestions are very welcome.
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